FRIDAY!

Yeah it's Friday and I survived the first week back at work. It took me a couple days to get back in the swing of things, but today I really worked hard and got a lot done. I had to leave a little earlier to pick up Jaycee because Daddy was working overtime.

It's going to take sometime to get used to being a working mom and I'm only working part-time right now. This helps out a lot so I can get errands run on the days I have off. It's really going to be rough when I have to start back full time. There isn't enough time in the day to get things done. Right now I'm still doing laundry and just got done cleaning up the kitchen. It sucks too because Jaycee goes to bed between 7pm and 7:30pm and I feel I don't get much time with her in the evenings by the time I get home from work. I have to make those couple hours great quality time. I am extremely grateful that both my husband and I have weekends off so that the three of us can spend the time together.

Jaycee also survived her week with Sani; she was a happy little girl today when I picked her up. I think she is enjoying her time with Sani and the other kids. I just wish she would learn to take the bottle. On Tuesday she ate 1.5 ounces, Wednesday 1 ounce and today only 1 ounce. Concerned mommy called the pediatrician today. The doc said to give it some time since this is her first week and if she continues then to call back. The reason I called was because at night she is sleeping so good and not eating, so I'm afraid she is not eating enough. She only nurses 2 or 3 times in the morning before going to Sani's and then again 2 or 3 times when I get home before going to bed. I pray she starts eating soon.

Jaycee's new thing.........her fingers make her happy. I'm always asking her what favor are they?This is one way she soothes herself and falls asleep. ROCK ON!

the no-cry sleep solution

I am currently reading this book called, "the no-cry sleep solution" by Elizabeth Pantley. Gentle ways to help your baby sleep through the night. So far the book is great and is really helping with Jaycee. For those parents that don't like the cry it out method, I highly recommend this book. Tavo and I weren't crazy about letting Jaycee cry and cry; we tried and did let her cry for a half hour. But after finding that it didn't work and she wouldn't sooth herself, we tried plan B. My sister recommended the book; she used it on her second child. Tavo and I were one of those parents that thought if you put your baby to bed later she will sleep longer, we were wrong. Something the book teaches you. Jaycee is currently sleeping through the night and taking naps through out the day. Her naps are not very long but we are working on it. At night she has been going to bed at 7pm and doesn't wake up till 4:30am-5am then goes back to sleep. I wish we could either get her to wake up earlier than 5am or sleep till 7am. When she wakes up at 4:30am - 5am it's so close to the Tavo's alarm time for work. Alarm goes off at 5:30am. We are still working on it. The author also has other books........

• No-Cry Nap Solution
  
• No-Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers


• No-Cry Potty Training


• No-Cry Discipline Solution


• Gentle Baby Care


• Hidden Messages


• Perfect Parenting


• Kid Cooperation

Back at work

Today was my first day back at work. Boy was it a rough morning. I cried in the shower, I cried getting dressed, I cried driving to Sani's and I cried all the way to work. I even cried last night while getting her things ready for the morning. Jaycee and I arrived at Sani's 8am and I didn't leave till 8:50am. I was taking Kayla (Sani's daughter) to school so she could be there by 9am. We got to Sani's early so I could hang out with them before leaving. I didn't want the first day to be rushed. Over all it was a good day, pretty relaxed getting back in the swing of things. I missed my little princess like crazy and the day couldn't go fast enough.

Sani's report............she was really good. She didn't cry but once when she woke up from a nap and only for about 2 seconds. Her first nap was at about 9:45am for 30 minutes; her second nap was around noon for almost an hour and then she fall asleep right before Daddy came to pick her up. She took her naps sleeping by herself like a big girl. She only ate 1.5 ounces from the bottle, so she was hungry when I came home from work. Stubborn little turkey!

She is doing so much better about sleeping on her own. She is still doing really well at sleeping in her bassinet at night, going on 6 nights in a row. Now we are working on getting her to bed earlier. We used to put her to bed with us around 9pm, but now we are trying to get her down by 7 - 7:30pm. Last night she didn't do well with going to bed early, tonight she is doing really well so far.

Mommy and Jaycee

Jaycee being a big girl sleeping by herself in the bassinet.

Things you must have in your purse…..

Last weekend I was with my girlfriend Monica driving in the car to our girlfriend Maria's house. While talking I noticed she had something in her teeth, so I let her know. I hate that embarrassment, I always let people know. She couldn't get it out so I pulled out dental floss from my purse. She said, “Heather you always have everything.” She suggested I should post on my blog what to carry in your purse, so here are some items I usually make sure I have.............

• Driver’s license
• Bank card / credit card
• Sunglasses
• Cell phone
• A small hairbrush
• Dental floss
• Pen and/or pencil
• Hand sanitizer
• Hand lotion
• Chap Stick
• Lipstick
• Gum
• A small daily planner
• Nail clippers
• Nail file
• Baby wipes (must better than a tide pen, wipes get out any stain, almost any)

Sleeping

Our little princess is doing much better at sleeping on her own. Tuesday she took two 25 minute naps all by herself on the couch. She fall asleep on me first then I laid her down. Not to the stage of her soothing herself to sleep yet. When we were at my sister's last week she did sooth herself to sleep a couple times. My sister has one of those old swings that winds up and Jaycee liked that for some reason. I need to find one. Yesterday she napped a lot in the car while we were running errands and took little 10 minute naps on the couch. Last night she was a big girl. She slept 5 hours in her bassinet. Daddy and I actually got to cuddle for awhile. She woke up at 2:30am and wanted to nurse. I woke up and fed her, but couldn't get her back to sleep in the bassinet so she slept with us till she woke up at 7am. We need to keep working at it and she will get better. Big improvements so far. Now if we can just get her to do better at taking the bottle.

Currently she is laying on the couch asleep........wonder if she will last longer than 10 minutes. Go Jaycee go..........I have faith in you.

My sweet angel sleeping on the couch.

Back to work soon

I only have one more week before I have to go back to work :-( I start back March 10th. Not looking forward to leaving Jaycee. Even thought I know she will be in good hands. I have really enjoyed the time with her, ever minute of it. I am so thankful my work is letting me start back part-time. Working part-time makes things a little easier. She is doing so many things right now and changing everyday, feel like I am going to miss out on things. Never thought being a working mom would be so hard.

Sani you'll have to take pictures through out the day on your cell phone and send to me and Daddy.

Our road trip

Jaycee and I have returned from Zona. We had a really nice visit, but it was TOO SHORT. Wish we could have stayed through the weekend and part of this coming week. Since Daddy didn't go we didn't want to be gone that long. Daddy missed his little princess BUNCHES and thought she grew in the time we were gone. She started sucking her thumb while we were gone and daddy felt he missed out.

It was really nice to hang out with my nephews and nieces. I miss them already, they grow so much each time I see them. Of course it's always nice to hang out with my sister and brother-in-law Shane also. I wish we lived closer. Zerah the little one, who is 5 months old, is really going to be different next time I see her. When we returned home Jaycee was trying to be like her cousin and roll over, yesterday she rolled her whole body over. It was too cute; of course after she rolled over she was stuck and needed help.

Jaycee got to hang out with her cousins all week, along with her auntie and Uncle Shane. She also got to hang out with grandma and grandpa, great grandma and grandpa, second cousin Caylee and great aunt Linda.

Auntie Shelly, Zerah and Jaycee. They are both wearing their cute little octopus outfits.

Cousin Davis and Jaycee. Davis likes to give lots of kisses to the babies. Jaycee just loved Davis, he is always moving around and she loved to watch him.

Big cousin Conor and Jaycee. Jaycee missed cousin Conor when he was at school during the day.

Cousin Aidan and Jaycee. The big princess and little princess.

Great Aunt Linda with Jaycee.

Second cousin Caylee with Jaycee.

Auntie Shelly with Jaycee.

Great Grandma with Jaycee.

Great Grandpa with Jaycee.

Uncle Shane playing with Jaycee and making her smile.

Grandma with all her grandchildren. Look Jaycee's hair makes Grandma look like she has a beard.

Grandpa and Grandma with Jaycee.

Sunday visit with Belita

Last Sunday we went to Belita's (grandma's) for a visit. Below is a cute picture of Belita and the princess sleeping.

Goin to Zona

Jaycee and I are making a trip to AZ to visit my sister and her family before I have to go back to work. We are leaving this coming week. Daddy has to work so he will be staying home. We will miss Daddy very much while we are gone and I know Daddy will miss his two girls too. I'm looking forward to the fun time I'll get to spend with my nieces and nephews. Plus hanging out with my sis and brother-in-law is always fun! The family is looking forward to seeing Jaycee also. I'll post when I return.

My beautiful sister with Jaycee when they visited back in January. Auntie look out Jaycee has grown lots since this picture.

Darn shots

Our little princess went to the doctor's today for her two month check up. This meant she was getting shots; mommy wasn't looking forward to her princess getting shots at all. As the nurse was getting things ready I was talking to her and she was smiling and then all of a sudden she started crying really hard. That darn nurse had stuck her with the first shot and then the second and she was not a happy girl at all. I quickly picked her up to hug and hold her. As I was telling her it was okay I felt tears coming down my cheeks, I was crying too. She started to run a little bit of a fever tonight and daddy had to run out and get some infant Tylenol. Now she is doing better, she is sleeping on my shoulder while I type this post. She wasn't ready for night night yet. Hopefully she will be ready after this, mommy is tired.

Today she weighed 11 pounds and is 22 1/2 inches long and her head is 38cm. The doc says she is healthy and doing well. She is growing so fast. Tavo and I look back at her pictures and can't believe how big she is getting. Time really does fly.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Our little angel..........

Hope everyone has a wonderful Valentine's Day! Enjoy!

Picture update

I can never think of anything creative to write, but wanted to keep you updated with some recent pictures of our little Princess.

Stubborn little TURKEY

Our little princess can be sound asleep in your arms and when you put her down this is what she does. We will let her cry thinking she will cry herself back to sleep, but no she only cries louder and even has real tears. We have tried everything. We have a swing and she will stay asleep for about 5 minutes then wakes up. While I'm talking a shower she chills in the swing, she loves the sound of the shower. Must have something to do with me being in the shower the whole time during labor. Even when she is fussy, I'll give her a bath and she stops crying right away. We have tired putting her on the floor with a blanket, tired putting her on a pillow on the couch, she will stay in her crib with the mobile going for about 10 minutes (she likes the music), and we have also tired one of those bouncy seats.

Anyone else have ideas we can try? I love my little girl and love holding her but want to be able to put her down with out hearing her cry. The only way I get anything done around the house is by putting her in the sling I have for her, which is fine, but can't use that when I am getting dressed or going to the bathroom.

Giggles and Smiles

Jaycee is starting to make little noises and smile all the time when you talk to her. It's so cute; we are really enjoying her smiles. It's really hard to catch it on video or the camera, but we try.

Photographer

Thanks everyone for voting, after talking it over more with Tavo we have decided we really can't afford to spend $300 to $400 right now for pictures. It would be nice, but since I'm not working right now and when I do go back to work it will only be part-time we thought it wouldn't be smart to spend that kind of money right now. I think we are just going to go to a small studio like Wal-Mart or somewhere else and get family pictures taken, which will be really cheap. I know it won't be as nice, but at least we will have pictures. Thanks again for taking the time to look at the websites.

Voting continues......

I thought yesterday was Thursday; I guess I get lost on my days since I have been home with Jaycee. I need to make my decision by Friday so if you could please vote, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks again and for those of you that have already voted, thanks!

Check out some recent pictures of Jaycee........

Newborn Photographer

HI ALL....................

I need your help. I am trying to decide on a photographer to take pictures of Jaycee and us. I am looking to get pictures of me nursing Jaycee, along with a cute picture of Daddy and Jaycee, also pictures of Jaycee alone and a family picture. Please take a look at the three websites below and leave a comment below and vote on who you like best. They are all around the same price, now we just need to decide. Sorry I need to make my decision quickly, by tomorrow to get the special that one of the photographer is offering. Your help would be appreciated if you even see this is time. Thanks!

http://www.aquariostudio.com/

http://www.jenibernatz.com/

http://www.rebeccahelpling.com/

Our 1st night out.......

Last night was our 1st night out leaving Jaycee with our good friends Sani and Antwan. We went to dinner with a group of our friends to help Mary Ann celebrate her birthday. HAPPY 30TH BIRTHDAY MARY ANN! Last night was hard; I didn't want to leave Jaycee. I cried when we dropped her off. We decided to go because the place that Mary Ann picked to have her birthday dinner was right down the street from Sani and Antwan's. It was only 5 minutes away and knew we would only be gone about 2 hours. We ended up being gone 2 hours and 23 minutes. We know we need to get used to leaving her, but it's really hard. We have decided we need to leave her a couple more times before I have to go back to work. Otherwise going back to work is going to be really hard. Thanks Sani and Antwan for making last night possible, we had a really nice time! We are blessed being surrounded by such great friends.

Lastest pics of our little bundle of joy...........

Sleeping with mommy on the couch. Both had a long hard day!

Making funny faces with uncle Kike.

Our sleepy little princess.

Jaycee's one month checkup

Jaycee had her one month checkup today. The doctor says she is healthy and doing great! She weighed 9 pounds and 4 ounces and was 21 1/2 inches. She is growing fast. Can't believe she is already one month old.

Picture taken right before we left for the doctor's.